From a true friend :)

Today I got a text from one of my best friends in the whole entire world ...

"I could never imagune what your life was like growing up but can only say how proud and happy I am for you.  Walking in your shoes must have felt like walking on hot coals with no soles on your feet.  As life turned you away, you found ways to get around up and over it!  It's been an adventure and a tremendous journey that is just the beginning of everything in front of you.  I don't have to tell you to take advantage because I know you'll break down doors following your dreams.  I love you and prayed for you every step of the way.  You are truly blessed."  - Robin

There are so many things that have happened in my life that I had to over come and I am sure there will be many more that will be set before me. Other then my little family who have been there for me through every step of the way along came this very special person who believed in me and saw something in me that no one else was able to see.  For almost more then 7 years he has been there for me through thick and thin, a role model, a life coach, a true definition of a friend.  Someone who has taught me that life is not about the money you make, but most importantly life is about the relationships you create and maintain with people.  Although I don't have a ton of friends, I have just enough true friends I can count on one hand and still have fingers left over.  He is one of them.

Robin, you mean so much to me, Alex and Andre.  You have never left us like so many other people have and we love you dearly.  We would do anything for you.  You are part of our family and want you to know that we don't adore anyone more then how much we adore you.  Thank you for being such a kind hearted loving person and we know that sometimes things may not be amazing right now and things might not always be perfect but it is because of your positive attitude and you're good karma that you are so blessed.  I only hope that one day I can be as optimistic and positive as you and Lord knows I definitely try.  You are the best friend anyone could ever have.  Thank you for everything. 

Love
Bea

Valentine's Day ...

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul. - judy garland

I'd love to say that Valentine's Day is one of my favorite days but to me it is definitely over rated.  I believe that you should show the people you love and care about the way you feel everyday and not have to be reminded 1 day a year.  Life is too short, you can never say you love someone too many times or too often.  Love the people in your life and show them every single day because you never know what can happen in a blink of an eye. 

love you all

not just today

but everyday <3



No Excuses ...

“We have a tendency to look at things as they are, without seeing the wonderful opportunities that are available. It is really our choice, nobody else’s. Almost everything that happens to us, either good or bad, is a result of the decisions we make. It is popular to point a finger and blame everybody else for the situations we find ourselves in, but everybody has the opportunity to make the choices that govern their lives. We choose whether we are going to be happy or sad, believe or doubt, pray or curse, help or heal, work or loaf, succeed or fail.”

Coach Lou Holtz

sister love

Stumbled upon these pictures and they reminded me of my sister and I.

I never knew what a best friend was until I realized when the whole world walked out on me my sister always remained by my side.

My sister is someone that I trust, love, and adore.

Someone who knows you inside and out and still loves you unconditionally.

The many inside jokes ...

I love you my little sister!

home is whenever im with you

coconut water ... to drink or not to drink

So, I did some research on coconut water because I was getting some mixed reviews from a few of my friends about coconut water.  Is it really beneficial or not???

Here are some facts:

• Coconut water has 15 times more potassium then any sports drink
• There is a huge difference between drinking coconut juice from a coconut that is green rather then brown.  When the juice derives from a brown coconut that means that the coconut is old and that means the coconut juice has turned into fat! 
• Green coconuts have a total of 5 electrolytes!
• Sodium
• Magnesium
• Calcium
• Potassium
• Phosphorus
• Boosts the immune system
• More hydrating then water!
• No sugar added
• Energy booster
• Increases metabolic rate which can lead to weight loss
• ZERO fat
• ZERO cholesterol
• ALL natural - coconut water has been used as an intravenous fluid and saves lives

The pictures above are the more reputable brands of coconut water :)

Cartier Love Collection ...

Went to google about Cartier Love ring and found a little background story about the Cartier LOVE collection...

In the summer of 1969, a (then young, now late) Cartier staff designer, Aldo Cipullo, created the Cartier Love bracelet, inspired by the chastity belt. Cipullo designed such that the Cartier Love ‘screw’ design is fastened with a tiny screw which can only be opened by the screw driver owned by the lover, symbolizing a "locked up," committed relationship.

This became a classic symbol of love, vividly depicting the faithful love and promises between the couple. What was special about the ring is that when putting on the ring, it requires the couple to tighten the screws on the ring together, signifying the unity needed to secure a relationship.  Definitely a great ring to get my future husband :)

The bracelets are also beautiful ... Something you can wear daily, dress up or dress it down.  Something that can maybe be passed down to your daughter, granddaughter, son, or grandson ... or anyone special for that matter.  It is definitely unisex.

love is ...

It’s when you’re leaving for work on a frigid morning and find that the ice has already been scraped off your windshield.




It’s when one cooks and the other does the dishes.



It’s when one gets up with a crying baby in the middle of the night so the other can get some sleep.



It’s a word of encouragement when you need it most.



It’s when one will be honest about unflattering pants or a booger situation and the other can trust their motives.



It’s when two people find each other attractive first thing in the morning.



It’s when someone accepts your family as their own.



It’s when you both take full responsibility for the maintenance of your shared living space.



It’s giving compliments freely and sometimes publicly and criticizing constructively and always privately.



It’s knowing someone’s secrets, pet peeves, and simple pleasures.



It’s having someone who will tell you the truth even when they know you would rather not hear it.



It’s being someone’s home base.



It’s giving your all to protect them.



It’s listening to someone vent without judging them.



It’s being their biggest advocate and most trusted confidante.



It’s having someone who will warm your cold feet.



It’s sharing inside jokes and knowing looks.



It’s offering the last bite and not begrudging them when they take it.



Love is putting in the work of having a successful marriage after all these years when it’s so easy to take each other for granted.



Bottom line – if you both put each other’s happiness before your own, you both win. Roses and candlelight are lovely, but they just scratch the surface. True love is not only for better or for worse. Its for the mundane, the boring, the frightening, the agonizing, the exuberant, the surprising and the wonderful.



A guy who will get you take-out hot & sour soup when you have the flu – that is love

make it work

love ...